Eligibility & Accounts
Last updated July 2026
MINGLR is strictly an adult platform, and every account (free or paid, verified or not) is expected to meet the same baseline requirements before ever swiping, messaging, or booking a Space.
These requirements exist because trust on MINGLR is built cumulatively: your age, your identity, and your account history all inform how much other members can reasonably rely on what you've told them.
Minimum age
- You must be 18 or older to create an account, with no regional exceptions, even where local law sets a lower age of majority for other purposes.
- Age is verified at signup via birthdate, and can be independently confirmed later through ID Verification if your account is flagged for review.
- Accounts found to belong to a minor are removed immediately, without warning, and may be referred to law enforcement depending on the circumstances.
- Adult content restrictions extend to age-gated Spaces bookings, which require separate ID verification specifically for alcohol service or certain spa treatments.
One account, one person
- Duplicate accounts aren't allowed, including "backup" accounts kept in case a primary account is suspended, or a second account used to see a different Discover feed.
- We link accounts across device, payment method, and verification data specifically to detect and merge or remove duplicates.
- Couples using the Couple gender option still operate as one MINGLR account, not two linked accounts each independently swiping.
- If you lose access to your account, use account recovery rather than creating a new one; a second account created to bypass a lost login will still be flagged as a duplicate.
Accurate information
- Name, birthday, gender, and location should reflect reality. A persona built to look younger, older, or otherwise materially different from who you are undermines the trust the whole platform depends on.
- Location can be approximate for privacy, but shouldn't be deliberately spoofed to appear in a city or Discover radius you don't actually live near, especially to access region-specific Spaces or events.
- Update your information if it changes. A profile that's several years out of date functions as misleading even without intent to deceive.
Account ownership & transfer
- Your account isn't transferable. Selling, gifting, or trading a MINGLR account (including one with an established match history or high POINT$ balance) isn't permitted.
- Don't let someone else operate your account, including a friend "helping" you message matches or a partner using your account after a breakup.
- We reserve the right to decline or terminate service to anyone, at our discretion, independent of whether every specific rule was technically followed.
Respect & Conduct
Last updated July 2026
MINGLR works because people show up as themselves and treat each other with basic decency. Every other policy on this page is really just a specific application of that one idea, but decency has enough edge cases that it's worth spelling out.
How to disagree, decline, or end things
- Not every match will click, and that's fine. Ending a conversation, even abruptly, doesn't require justification.
- You don't owe anyone an explanation for unmatching, passing, or not responding. "I'm just not feeling it" is a complete sentence.
- Don't guilt-trip, insult, or demean someone for losing interest, including publicly in a Group or via a Live comment aimed at them.
- Ghosting isn't against the rules, but a brief, kind close (even a one-line "not feeling a connection, take care") tends to land a lot better than silence, and we'd encourage it where you can manage it.
Respecting a "no"
- A pass, an unmatch, or a lack of response all mean the same thing: stop. Continued contact attempts (new messages after unmatching, a new account to reach someone who blocked you, showing up at a Space you know they frequent) is harassment.
- "No" doesn't require repeating. If someone has said they're not interested once, a second attempt to change their mind is pressure, not persistence.
- This applies regardless of history. A prior relationship, a long conversation, or a great first date doesn't obligate anyone to continued contact afterward.
Conduct in shared spaces
- Groups, Live streams, Conferences, and MINGLR Spaces are shared, not private. The same standards apply there as in a one-on-one DM; a group setting doesn't lower the bar or provide cover for behavior that wouldn't fly one-on-one.
- Group organizers and Live hosts don't get elevated license to talk down to participants just because they created the space or hold the largest audience.
- Piling on is still harassment, even distributed across many people. A dozen people each sending one rude comment is collectively the same violation as one person sending twelve.
Power dynamics & special treatment
- Verification status, subscription tier, or POINT$ balance don't grant special standing to disregard these guidelines; a Premium subscriber is held to exactly the same conduct standard as a Free member.
- Admins and moderators are still members and are expected to model the behavior these guidelines describe, not just enforce it.
Authenticity
Last updated July 2026
MINGLR's whole premise is that a real, unscripted fifteen seconds tells you more than a curated photo. That premise only holds if the person in the intro clip is genuinely the person you'd meet.
Identity verification
- ID Verification (from your Profile) confirms your live selfie matches your government ID and adds a verified badge visible everywhere your profile appears.
- Verification is currently optional but strongly encouraged: verified profiles receive priority placement in Discover, and some members filter to verified-only matches.
- Verification can be revoked and re-required if an account is repeatedly reported for suspected inauthenticity, even after initially passing.
- A verified badge reflects identity, not character. It confirms you are who your ID says you are; it isn't an endorsement of your conduct.
Impersonation
- Never use someone else's photos, videos, name, or biography to build a profile: this includes public figures, influencers, an ex who hasn't consented, or a friend's likeness "as a joke."
- Don't claim an occupation, credential, or affiliation you don't actually hold, particularly ones that would reasonably affect someone's decision to meet you (medical professional, law enforcement, verified public account elsewhere).
- Catfishing (building a relationship under false identity) is treated as a severe violation, not a misunderstanding, once intent is clear.
Keeping your profile current
- Profile photos and intro clips should be recent enough that a match would recognize you on sight when you meet.
- Heavy or misleading editing (filters that change your apparent age, face shape, or body significantly) crosses from "looking your best" into misrepresentation.
- Update your profile after major changes (a new haircut is fine to skip; ten years and a different life stage is not).
Bots, automation & inauthentic activity
- No scripted or automated accounts, including auto-swiping tools, auto-messaging bots, or accounts that exist purely to farm POINT$ or referral bonuses.
- No coordinated fake engagement, such as arranging for friends to mass-like a profile to manipulate Discover placement.
- Use Discover categories and Platform Modes honestly. Selecting Friends or Community mode to pursue romantic or sexual attention the other person didn't sign up for is a form of inauthenticity, not just a mismatch.
Photos, Video & Audio
Last updated July 2026
Your intro clip, gallery, and any audio you attach are the first real impression a match gets. These standards exist so that impression is honest, safe, and something you actually own the rights to share.
Ownership & rights
- Only upload media you personally own or have explicit rights to use. Stock photography, screenshots of someone else's content, and downloaded images from the internet aren't acceptable as profile media.
- Uploaded audio (notification chimes, clips) must be original or properly licensed: commercial music you don't hold rights to distribute isn't allowed, even briefly.
- Don't repost another member's intro clip, gallery photo, or Live clip as your own or without clear attribution and consent.
Who can appear
- Your primary intro clip and lead photo should clearly be you, alone. Group shots are fine deeper in your gallery, but shouldn't be the main way a match identifies you.
- Other identifiable adults need their consent before appearing in your gallery photos, video, or Live streams in a way that would let a stranger identify them.
- No minors in any profile media, without exception: not with a parent's consent, not cropped, not blurred, not as a "when I was younger" throwback photo. This applies to every media type: photos, intro clips, gallery uploads, and Live streaming backgrounds.
Nudity & sexual content
- No nudity, partial nudity, or sexually suggestive content in any photo, video, or audio, on any part of the platform: profile media, Live streams, Conferences, comments, or Groups.
- This includes implied nudity (strategically cropped or obscured shots), overtly sexualized posing, and audio content with sexual framing or innuendo.
- Swimwear and athletic wear in ordinary contexts (beach, pool, gym) are fine; content clearly staged to be sexually suggestive is not, regardless of how much skin is technically shown.
Editing, filters & misrepresentation
- Normal touch-ups (lighting, color correction, minor blemish removal) are fine. Filters that meaningfully change your apparent age, face structure, or body shape are not, because they defeat the purpose of a video-first platform.
- AI-generated or heavily synthetic images of yourself aren't acceptable as primary profile media; your photos and clips should be actual, unaltered footage of you.
Messaging
Last updated July 2026
A good message assumes the person on the other end is a stranger deserving of the same courtesy you'd extend meeting someone through a mutual friend: genuine curiosity, no pressure, and room to not respond.
Opening messages
- Personalizing your opener isn't required, but sending identical copy-paste text to dozens of matches reads as, and functionally is, spam, especially at high volume in a short window.
- Lead with something related to their actual profile, prompt, or intro clip where possible; it signals you watched rather than mass-swiped.
- No unsolicited sexual messages or images, ever, regardless of how the conversation has gone so far. Enthusiastic, explicit invitation from the other person is the only thing that changes this, and it can be revoked at any time.
Pacing & persistence
- Not hearing back in an hour, a day, or a week isn't an invitation to send a string of follow-ups. One polite check-in after a meaningful gap is reasonable; repeated pings are not.
- Read receipts, "online now" indicators, or a fast reply to someone else aren't evidence that you're owed a faster response; people manage their own time on the app.
- If a conversation goes quiet, let it. Escalating tone, asking why they stopped responding, or expressing frustration at silence puts pressure on someone who's simply moved on.
Requests for contact & information
- Be cautious requesting a phone number, social handle, or off-platform contact very early, and be equally cautious providing yours; this is a well-documented pattern in romance scams.
- Never send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial account details to a match, under any framing (emergency, investment tip, shipping fee for a gift). Report and block instead of trying to verify the story yourself.
- Requests for explicit photos in exchange for anything (money, POINT$, access to a Group) are treated as solicitation, not a private arrangement between consenting adults.
Comments & the language filter
- Comments on photos and videos follow the same standards as direct messages. "It's just a comment, not a DM" isn't an exception.
- The language filter's warning exists to catch things before they send, not to gatekeep every possible phrasing: "send anyway" is meant for genuine false positives (a name that happens to trigger a filter, a joke among established friends), not a workaround for knowingly abusive language.
- Repeated use of "send anyway" to push flagged language through is reviewed as a pattern by our trust & safety team, independent of any single message's severity.
Meeting Safely
Last updated July 2026
Most matches on MINGLR go fine. These guidelines exist for the ones that don't, and for the ordinary caution that makes a good match even better.
Before you meet
- A video call before meeting in person is a completely reasonable ask, and never a reason for someone to accuse you of being paranoid or high-maintenance.
- Do a basic gut check on consistency: does their story, job, and photos line up over a few conversations? Inconsistencies are worth a direct, calm question, not an accusation.
- Decide your own boundaries before the date, not in the moment: how long you'll stay, what you're comfortable sharing, and what would make you leave early.
Choosing where to meet
- Meet publicly for early dates. MINGLR Spaces exist specifically so a first or second meetup can happen somewhere staffed, public, and easy to leave without an awkward scene.
- Arrange your own transportation to and from a date, even if a ride is offered generously; it keeps your ability to leave entirely in your own hands.
- Avoid meeting at either person's home for a first meetup, regardless of how well the conversation has gone.
During the meetup
- Tell a friend or family member your plans: who you're meeting, where, and roughly when you expect to be done. Consider sharing live location for the first hour.
- Keep your phone charged and accessible. A dying battery on a first date with someone new is worth avoiding.
- Pace your own alcohol consumption at Spaces that serve it, and never leave a drink unattended.
- Trust your read on the moment. You never owe anyone continued time, explanation, or politeness once something feels wrong; leaving abruptly is always an acceptable response to discomfort.
Financial & scam red flags
- Any request for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial account access from a match is a red flag, regardless of the story attached: a stranded relative, a shipping fee, a "sure thing" investment.
- Someone who consistently can't video call, always has a reason to cancel meeting in person, or professes strong feelings unusually fast is worth extra scrutiny, not benefit of the doubt.
- Report suspected scam attempts immediately rather than trying to confirm it yourself; our trust & safety team can often identify patterns across accounts that aren't visible from a single conversation.
Age-gated venues
- Spaces serving alcohol, or offering certain spa services, require a separate ID verification step before booking, regardless of your account's overall verification status.
- This age-gate applies per booking, not per account, though verification persists for the rest of your session once completed.
MINGLR Spaces
Last updated July 2026
MINGLR Spaces (cafés, restaurants, clubs, hotels, entertainment venues, and lifestyle services) are real, independently operated businesses. Booking through the app is a real reservation with a real business, not a sandboxed in-app interaction.
Reservations & bookings
- Honor the reservations you make. A booking holds a table, room, ticket, or appointment slot that another member could otherwise use.
- Cancel through the app if your plans change, rather than simply not showing up; this releases the slot back to the venue and to other members.
- Repeated no-shows may result in reduced booking privileges, tracked the same way any other pattern of disruptive behavior would be.
- Party size, date, and time details should be accurate when booking; showing up with substantially more guests than reserved puts the venue in a difficult position.
Conduct at venues
- Treat venue staff with the same respect you'd extend another member. Rudeness, demanding behavior, or disrespect toward staff at a partner venue reflects on your MINGLR account.
- Follow each venue's own house rules in addition to these guidelines: dress codes, occupancy limits, and specific service policies all still apply on top of MINGLR's own standards.
- Property damage, theft, or disruptive behavior at a partner venue can result in both a venue-level ban and MINGLR account action.
Alcohol & age-restricted services
- Alcohol-serving venues require ID verification confirming you're old enough to be served before a reservation can be completed.
- Drink at a reasonable pace and stop before intoxication becomes disruptive. Venue staff have the right to refuse further service, independent of your MINGLR booking.
- Certain spa services carry state-mandated age-verification requirements separate from general account verification; this isn't optional or venue-specific, it's a regulatory requirement we pass along faithfully.
Disputes & venue-level issues
- Billing or service disputes at a venue are primarily between you and that business, though MINGLR's support team can help mediate where a booking made through the app was clearly mishandled.
- Report a genuinely unsafe or non-compliant venue (over-serving an intoxicated patron, failing to check ID appropriately) directly through the app so we can review the partnership.
Live & Conferences
Last updated July 2026
Going Live broadcasts to your queue in real time; a Conference puts several members in one video call at once. Both carry a higher bar for conduct than a private one-on-one message, since more than one person is affected by what you say and show.
Broadcasting standards
- No sexual content while Live, in your background, wardrobe, or behavior: this includes partial nudity and sexually suggestive framing, regardless of your current viewer count.
- Keep your physical surroundings appropriate for a general audience: visible illegal activity, weapons, or graphic content in the background of a stream is treated the same as if it were the subject of the stream.
- Don't use Live specifically to solicit: requests for gifts, money, or off-platform payment framed as "tips" aren't part of the platform's design and will be treated as solicitation.
Viewer & comment conduct
- Comments on someone's Live stream follow the same conduct and content standards as a direct message, even at higher volume or relative anonymity.
- Harassment of a broadcaster in the comments (including from multiple accounts) is treated as harassment, not "engagement."
- Brigading a stream (organizing off-platform to flood a specific broadcaster's comments) is a coordinated-abuse violation on top of any individual comment issues.
Moderating your own stream
- You're responsible for the tone of your own Live stream, similar to how a Group creator is responsible for their Group.
- If comments turn harassing toward you or another viewer, report them and consider ending the stream rather than letting it continue; you're not obligated to keep broadcasting through abuse.
Conferences & group video
- Don't record or screenshot a Conference without telling the other participants first. A themed group call (Coffee & Conversation, Adventure Partners Meetup) still carries a reasonable expectation that the conversation stays there.
- Themed Conferences don't loosen content standards. A casual, informal setting doesn't change what's acceptable to say or show.
- Mute and camera controls exist for your comfort; you're never obligated to keep your camera on for the full duration of a Conference.
Groups
Last updated July 2026
Groups let members organize around shared interests (a running club, a new-in-town welcome crew, a dinner series) and invite others in. That structure comes with more shared responsibility than a one-on-one match.
Creating a Group
- Choose a name, description, and category (Dating, Community, or Lifestyle) that accurately represent the Group's actual purpose. A Group's public description is the first thing prospective members judge it by.
- Groups can't exist to route around content standards, prohibited-behavior rules, or age requirements; a Group description that implies looser rules than the rest of the platform will be removed.
- You're responsible for your Group's ongoing tone, similar to hosting a gathering in your own home; not every member's individual comment is on you, but a pattern of unaddressed bad behavior is.
Inviting & growing membership
- Sharing your Group's invite link publicly, or to people with relevant context, is fine. Repeatedly spamming the link to strangers, unrelated Groups, or off-platform channels isn't.
- Inviting existing MINGLR members directly through search is preferred over broadcasting an external link widely, since it keeps membership relevant to the Group's actual purpose.
- Don't misrepresent a Group's purpose to get people to join: describing a Group as casual and Community-oriented to attract members, then steering it toward something else once they're in, is a form of inauthenticity.
Moderating a Group
- Removing a disruptive member from your Group is allowed and encouraged; you don't need MINGLR's involvement to keep your own Group's conduct in line.
- Removal from a Group doesn't require MINGLR-level violation. A member can be a fine MINGLR citizen elsewhere and still not be a fit for your specific Group.
- Report Group-level violations that go beyond what you can moderate yourself: illegal content, harassment campaigns, or anything that would warrant account-level action.
Group lifecycle
- Inactive or abandoned Groups may be archived to keep Discover's Group listings genuinely active and useful for members browsing.
- Leaving a Group is always available to any member, and doesn't require the creator's approval.
Content Standards
Last updated July 2026
These standards apply everywhere on MINGLR (profile media, Discover, Matches, Messages, comments, Groups, Live, and Conferences) without a "less visible surface" exception.
Sexual content
- No nudity or sexual content in any format, anywhere on the platform, without exception: this is covered in depth under Photos, Video & Audio and applies identically to text, audio, and Live content.
Violence & graphic content
- No content depicting real violence, gore, or serious injury, including "shock content" shared as dark humor.
- No glorification or promotion of violence against any person or group, including hypothetical or "joking" framing.
Self-harm & disordered content
- No content that promotes, instructs, or glamorizes self-harm, suicide, or disordered eating. If you're struggling with any of this, we'd genuinely rather you reach a real support resource than post about it here.
- Discussing your own recovery or mental health in a general, non-instructive way isn't prohibited; the line is content that could function as a how-to or as glamorization for someone else struggling.
Hate speech & extremism
- No hateful symbols, language, or media, targeting race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or similar protected characteristics.
- This applies even when framed as historical, ironic, or "just a meme"; intent doesn't neutralize the impact on someone who encounters it.
- No extremist recruitment, symbols, or content associated with organizations that promote violence based on identity or ideology.
Spam, scams & deceptive content
- No spam, malware links, or deceptive links in any bio, message, comment, or Group description.
- No misinformation presented as fact designed to deceive or manipulate: false health claims, fabricated financial advice, or fake credentials used to build trust.
- No phishing attempts disguised as MINGLR communication, support requests, or verification prompts.
Civility & the language filter
- Messages and comments are checked by our language filter before sending, flagging text that may be considered offensive with a warning and a chance to edit or send anyway.
- The filter is a first line of defense, not the whole enforcement system. Content that passes the filter can still be reported and reviewed manually if it violates these standards.
Prohibited Behavior
Last updated July 2026
Some behavior results in immediate account action (typically suspension or permanent removal on the first confirmed instance) regardless of account history, subscription tier, or verification status.
Harassment & threats
- Stalking, doxxing, or threats of violence toward another member, on or off the platform.
- Coordinated harassment: organizing, encouraging, or participating in a group effort to target a specific member.
- Continued contact after a clear no, including through a new account, a mutual connection, or showing up somewhere you know they'll be.
Discrimination
- Attacks or exclusion based on race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or similar characteristics, whether in a profile, message, comment, Group, or Live stream.
Fraud & solicitation
- Financial scams of any kind, including romance scams, fake investment opportunities, and requests for money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency.
- MLM and pyramid-scheme recruiting conducted through matches, Messages, or Groups.
- Sex work solicitation, including offers of paid companionship, explicit content sales, or similar arrangements.
- Unsolicited advertising or promotion of unrelated products, services, or other platforms.
Minors
- Any account belonging to, or impersonating, a minor is removed immediately and may be referred to law enforcement.
- Any content involving minors in a sexual or exploitative context results in immediate, permanent removal and mandatory reporting to relevant authorities, with zero exceptions or appeals.
Illegal goods & services
- Advertising, arranging, or soliciting weapons, drugs, or other illegal goods or services anywhere on the platform, including in private Messages.
Platform manipulation
- Circumventing a suspension or ban by creating a new account, or helping someone else do so.
- Mass-reporting an innocent member to trigger auto-hide thresholds or harass them through the moderation system itself.
- Farming POINT$, referral bonuses, or Discover placement through fake accounts, bots, or coordinated inauthentic activity.
Privacy & Data
Last updated July 2026
Every match, Group conversation, or booking involves information someone has chosen to share within a specific context. Respecting that context is a real, enforceable expectation on MINGLR, not just a courtesy.
Sharing conversations & content
- Don't screenshot or share a private conversation, photo, or video outside the app without the other person's consent, including reposting someone's intro clip on another platform.
- Content shared in a private message or Group isn't public record. Quoting or reposting it publicly, even accurately, requires the original person's consent.
- This applies after a match ends too. A bad breakup or blocked account doesn't retroactively make previously private content fair game to share.
Identifying information
- Don't dox another member: sharing their real name, workplace, home address, or other identifying details without consent, especially in retaliation after a bad interaction.
- Location shown to other members is approximate, not exact. Attempting to reverse-engineer a precise location from displayed distance, or from patterns across multiple sessions, isn't permitted.
- Don't cross-reference a match's MINGLR profile with other platforms to compile information they haven't chosen to share here.
Verification & sensitive data
- ID Verification photos are used only for identity confirmation and are not shared with other members or made visible on your public profile.
- Payment and billing information is handled separately from profile data and is never visible to other members regardless of subscription tier.
Data handling
- Our full data-handling practices are described in our Privacy Policy, separate from these Community Guidelines; this section covers member-to-member privacy expectations, not MINGLR's own data practices.
- You can request your data or account deletion through account settings or by contacting support.
Payments & POINT$
Last updated July 2026
Subscriptions, MINGLR Spaces bookings, and the POINT$ loyalty program each have their own straightforward terms, summarized here for clarity alongside our full billing terms.
Subscriptions
- Free, Plus, Pro, and Premium tiers renew automatically at the billing cadence (monthly or annual) you selected at signup or upgrade.
- Cancel anytime from Premium settings; your tier remains active through the end of the current billing period rather than ending immediately.
- Tier features and pricing may change over time. We'll do our best to communicate meaningful changes before they take effect.
POINT$
- POINT$ have no cash value and can't be purchased directly, sold, gifted between accounts, or redeemed for money.
- POINT$ are earned through genuine platform activity (matching, messaging, keeping your profile updated, referrals, bookings) and spent through the Rewards Catalog.
- Membership tier multipliers increase how many POINT$ you earn per action, but don't change what POINT$ can be used for.
- Farming POINT$ through fake accounts, bots, or artificially repeated actions is a platform-manipulation violation, covered further under Prohibited Behavior.
Referrals
- Referral bonuses are for genuine new members you actually invited; creating fake accounts to claim your own referral code's bonus is not a legitimate use of the program.
- Referred members get their own welcome bonus independent of anything the referrer does afterward.
MINGLR Spaces bookings
- A Spaces booking is an agreement with that specific venue, subject to the venue's own cancellation, no-show, and refund policies in addition to MINGLR's.
- Payment for a booking (where applicable) is processed at the venue, not through MINGLR's own billing; disputes over a specific charge should go to the venue first, with MINGLR support able to help mediate.
Rewards Catalog & program changes
- Rewards Catalog items, tier multipliers, and referral bonus amounts are provided at MINGLR's discretion and may change over time.
- We'll always honor POINT$ balances already earned, even if specific catalog items or multipliers change afterward.
Reporting & Enforcement
Last updated July 2026
Every profile, photo, video, comment, and message can be reported directly from where it appears. Here's what actually happens after you do.
How reporting works
- Reports go into a moderation queue reviewed by our trust & safety team, visible in the Admin Panel's Moderation tab with the reported content, reason, and reporter type attached.
- Content flagged three or more times is automatically hidden pending review, even before a human moderator has looked at it.
- Reporting doesn't notify the reported member of who reported them. Reports are handled confidentially on our end.
- False or mass reporting to harass an innocent member is itself a violation, covered under Prohibited Behavior.
Enforcement ladder
- Warnings. First-time, lower-severity violations typically receive a warning and content removal, with no further account restriction.
- Suspension. Repeated or more serious violations result in a temporary suspension, visible on the account's status in both the member-facing app and the Admin Panel.
- Permanent removal. Severe violations (harassment, impersonation, content involving minors, financial scams) result in immediate, permanent account deletion, typically without a prior warning.
- Severity, not just repetition, determines the response. A single severe violation can result in permanent removal on the first occurrence; a pattern of minor violations can escalate similarly over time.
Appeals
- If you believe a moderation decision was made in error, you can contact support to request a review. We'll reassess with the full context, including any information you provide that wasn't visible in the original report.
- Appeals are reviewed by someone other than whoever made the original decision where possible, to keep the review genuinely independent.
Legal cooperation
- We cooperate with valid legal requests from law enforcement, particularly involving illegal activity or anything involving minors.
- Enforcement is applied the same way for every member, regardless of subscription tier, verification status, or account age; a Premium subscriber and a Free member face identical consequences for identical violations.
Health & Wellbeing
Last updated July 2026
POINT$, streaks, and Discover are built to be genuinely fun and rewarding, not something that should feel compulsive, or come at the cost of how you're actually doing day to day.
Using MINGLR at your own pace
- It's fine to take breaks. Pausing your account, muting notifications, or stepping away from Discover for a while doesn't cost you anything meaningful, and your matches, Groups, and POINT$ balance will be waiting when you're back.
- There's no penalty for a quiet week. Response-time expectations are social norms between members, not something MINGLR itself tracks or penalizes.
- If chasing a streak, multiplier, or leaderboard position ever stops feeling fun, that's worth noticing; the point of the loyalty system is to reward genuine engagement, not to manufacture obligation.
Emotional wellbeing in matches
- Be mindful of the real effect ghosting, love-bombing, or stringing someone along has on the person on the other end, even when no rule is technically broken.
- A hard match, a bad date, an unanswered friend request, or being asked to leave a Group can genuinely sting. That's a normal part of putting yourself out there, but if it's affecting you more than feels manageable, that's worth paying attention to.
When to seek real support
- We're not a substitute for professional support. If you're going through something difficult, romantically, mentally, or otherwise, a real conversation with a counselor, doctor, or trusted person will help more than an app can.
- If you or someone you know is in crisis, please reach out to a local crisis line or emergency service rather than posting about it on the platform.
Legal & Compliance
Last updated July 2026
These Community Guidelines work alongside our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy, and describe what we expect and how we enforce it; they don't override local law, and they're not a substitute for reading the underlying legal agreements.
Local law
- Where local regulations are stricter than these guidelines (age of majority, alcohol service rules, professional licensing for Spaces), the stricter local standard governs in that jurisdiction.
- Some features may be unavailable or modified in specific regions to comply with local requirements.
Eligibility restrictions
- Sanctioned individuals and prohibited jurisdictions are not eligible for MINGLR accounts, consistent with applicable export and trade regulations.
- We may suspend service in a given region if required by law or regulatory action, independent of individual account standing.
Updates to these guidelines
- These guidelines may be updated periodically. We'll note the "last updated" date on each section when meaningful changes are made.
- Continued use of MINGLR after an update means the current version applies to your account going forward.
Relationship to other policies
- Nothing on this page is legal advice, for you or for us; it's a description of platform expectations and enforcement practice.
- Where these guidelines and our Terms of Service appear to conflict, the Terms of Service govern as the binding legal agreement, with these guidelines providing the practical detail behind it.